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  • Is it "Miss" or "Ms"? A newly-discovered 1885 cite suggests it's Miss

    An 1885 cite for Ms. as an abbreviation for Miss (Ms. Parrtington is contrasted with Mrs. Dull), from the Montpelier Vermont Watchman, is also an early example of an advertisement masquerading as a news item.
    An 1885 cite for Ms. as an abbreviation for Miss (Ms. Parrtington is contrasted with Mrs. Dull), from the Montpelier Vermont Watchman, is also an early example of an advertisement masquerading as a news item.

    To complicate things even further, the headline writer at the Milwaukee Sentinel (1898) uses Ms. as a further shortening of Mrs. Ms. Carter in the headline is Mrs. Leslie Carter in the story. (Broadway and silent film star Caroline Carter, called “the American Bernhardt,” kept her Chicago socialite husband’s name as her stage name, Mrs. Leslie Carter, after a scandalous 1889 divorce.)

    Ms. didn’t really take off until the politically-motivated language reforms of second-wave feminism and the cultural impact of Ms. Magazine in the 1970s. Many of the form’s popularizers at that time thought of Ms. as a blend of Miss and Mrs, but some evidence suggests that it derives more directly from Miss, or possibly from Mistress. It may have come from all of these, at different times. The 1885 citation from the Vermont Watchman (see illustration above), which has just come to light, provides a new link in the development of Ms. This newspaper ad, masquerading as a news story, contrasts Ms. Parrtington with Mrs. Dull, suggesting that Ms. is meant to abbreviate Miss.  

     

    The earliest example of Ms. found so far is on the tombstone of Ms. Sarah Spooner, who died in Plymouth, Massachusetts, in 1767, in her seventy-second year. Mistress Spooner’s marital status is unclear (she may or may not be the Sarah Spooner who married Thomas Hammond, of Plymouth, in 1712), but the Ms. on her tombstone is not a stab at language reform or a slip of the chisel, it’s just a shortening of Mistress by a stonecutter trying to save space on the already crowded slab.

     

    Tombstone of Ms. Sarah Spooner

     

    Above: The Ms on Sarah Spooner’s tombstone (1767) is probably short for Mistress, though it could also stand for Miss, which to add to the confusion was often spelled Mis and did not necessarily signal marital status. Below: a detail with digitally-modified section just above the “M” shows the superscript “s” of Ms more clearly.

           

    Detail of tombstone showing Ms detail in red

     

    To add to the confusion over the provenance of Ms., the title Mis (for the modern Miss) starts appearing as early as the 1660s in reference to an unmarried woman, though the form may also be used as a title without reference to marital state. In contrast, the first marriage-neutral proposal for Ms. pops up in 1901 in the Springfield (Massachusetts) Republican, with the suggestion that Ms. blends Miss and Mrs.:


    What is needed is a more comprehensive term which does homage to the sex without expressing any views as to their domestic situation, and what could be simpler or more logical that the retention of what the two doubtful terms [Miss and Mrs.] have in common. The abbreviation “Ms.” is simple. It is easy to write, and the person concerned can translate it properly according to circumstances. For oral use it might be rendered as “Mizz,” which would be a close parallel to the practice long universal in many bucolic regions, where a slurred Mis’ does duty for Miss and Mrs. alike.

    First use of Ms. as marriage-neutral.

    Excerpt from the Springfield (Massachusetts) Sunday Republican article on Ms., which appeared on Nov. 10, 1901, as reprinted in the Salt Lake City Daily Tribune, Nov. 17, 1901, p. 21. Image courtesy of Fred Shapiro, editor of the Yale Book of Quotations. The anonymous writer treats Ms. as a blend, preserving “what the two doubtful forms [Miss and Mrs.] have in common,” i.e., the letters “M” and “s,” and recommends the pronunciation "Mizz" rather than "Miss."

    A few years later, speaking at the feminist conference “Breaking into the Human Race,” held at the People’s Institute at Cooper Union on Feb. 20, 1914, the suffragist Fola La Follette recommends Miss as a general title for women both before and after marriage. La Follette gives no abbreviated form to accompany Miss, but her proposal may feed into later mentions of Ms.:

    Miss La Follette urged the abandonment also of the title “Mrs.,” saying it was unnecessary to label spinster and matron; that if a woman was single or married or had children or none, husband or none, was her concern and no one else’s. Society didn’t ask a man first of all whether he was married and had children or not; and what was good for the gander was good for the goose, she asserted.


    “If Miss is the form of address for women before marriage,” she said, “let it be so after marriage, too. Let the term acquire a larger social significance. When women keep their own name, a woman will not have to explain her children by wearing the name of a perfectly good legitimate husband who’s at home.”

     

    New York Times, Feb. 21, 1914, p. 18.

    Fola LaFollette recommends Miss as universal title 

    Still another form, M’s, is discussed as a useful alternative to Miss, with no feminism attached, in a letter from M. J. Birshtein to the New York Times in 1932:

    “Miss” or “M’s.”? Whoever will answer my question will go down in history as the sage, who by means of his ever-enlightening wisdom enabled stenographers and direct-by-mail specialists to catch up on some lost sleep.

     

    In addressing by letter a woman whose marital status is in doubt, should one write “M’s” or “Miss”?

     

    One school of thought argues that should one address a married woman as “Miss,” no harm is done, for if anything she feels flattered; whereas should an unmarried woman be addressed as “Miss,” then most certainly no harm has been done.

     

    In arguing against the use of “M’s,” this school says that it is too indefinite and that if it is used before the name of a single woman, it makes here extremely conscious of her “bachelor girl” state and thus creates within her a real feeling of antagonism.

     

    A simple question, but deciding on the correct answer is not so simple.

     

    M. J. Birshtein, New York, May 24, 1932


    Birshtein’s concern that M’s could make a single woman overly conscious of her “bachelor girl” status only makes sense if the form is pronounced “Miss.” He assumes that readers of the Times will already be familiar with M’s, and he implies that the question of its appropriateness is already being debated in business-writing circles, though it doesn’t appear again until the the late 1940s, where it takes the form Ms. Unfortunately, the Times didn’t print any answers that it might have received to Birshtein’s query, and discussion of a marriage-neutral honorific goes underground for almost twenty years.

     

    Letter to NY Times in 1932 about Ms

    Birshtein’s letter inquiring about “M’s” was not followed up by the newspaper

    Ms. resurfaced briefly in 1949, in Mario Pei’s popular Story of Language. Pei may be referring obliquely to La Follette's 1914 proposal for marriage-neutral Miss, or to other similar proposals, as he instructs readers to pronounce Ms. as “Miss," for which it stands:

    Feminists, who object to the distinction between Mrs. and Miss . . . have often proposed that the two present-day titles be merged into a single one, “Miss,” (to be written “Ms.”), with a plural “Misses” (written “Mss.”), even at the cost of confusion with the abbreviation for “manuscripts.” [The Story of Language, 1949]

    Excerpt from Mario Pei's Story of Language on Ms.

    Ms. appears again in the 1950s, enjoying a brief vogue in business writing textbooks. But it didn’t really make much headway till the 1970sMs. Magazine begins publishing in 1971—and the stylistically conservative New York Times didn’t O.K. the form as “fit to print” until 1986. By the 1970s, Ms. had also acquired the pronunciation "Mizz," further distancing the form from Miss.

    Comment on Ms. in the American Business Writing Association Newsletter, Oct. 1951

    In this discussion of Ms. in the Bulletin of the American Business Writing Association, Chester R. Anderson says that Ms. appeared "about fifteen or twenty years ago," and he notes that "the use of Ms. for all women would correspond logically to Mr. for all men." Unfortunately, Anderson is unable to resist adding his own patriarchal comment: "But are the women interested in being logical to this extent?"

    But now that Ms. has become an established honorific, its use today is as jumbled and vexed as the use of Mistress, Mrs., and Miss had been before it. In keeping with its 1970s relaunch, Ms. is still an alternative to the conventional Miss/Mrs. pair, but it’s also widely used by single women, not to mask their marital status in the same way that Mr. renders a man’s marital state invisible, but instead as a trendy alternative to Miss, regarded by some Ms.-adopters not as sexist but as old-fashioned. Ms. has replaced Miss for the growing number of English speakers who are pairing Ms. with Mrs. to signal unmarried/married much like the Miss/Mrs. pair it was supposed to replace.

     

    Ms. hasn't failed in its political goals. Instead, it has become complicated, like a lot of our usage. In one sense the title Ms. has simply returned to the way things were back in Ms. Sarah Spooner's day, where it could signal a lot or a little, and in another sense it’s a totally modern way of referring to half the population. Today Ms. functions as a title both for married and for unmarried women, a form chosen by feminists and non-feminists alike, though surely for different reasons. This confusion of usage simply continues the long tradition of women’s titles indicating, masking, or ignoring age or marital status, providing proof that while language planners can consciously put a logical, “preferred,” or politically-motivated form into play, language users will either adopt or ignore those recommendations, or adjust them in unforeseen ways. Instead of following prescriptions, we twist them, invent our own expressions, or reshape existing ones, all to fit our ever-changing contexts and needs.


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lynneguist@gmail.com Jul 28, 2010 5:43 pm
This topic always reminds me of teaching Comp at Illinois. The instructor I was working with got married halfway through the semester, and was frustrated that she couldn't get the students to continue to call her Ms X rather than Mrs X. It didn't matter that she pointed out that she'd kept her own name or that Ms doesn't mean 'married' or 'unmarried'. For many of the students, Miss was pronounced Miz, so Ms was just the abbreviation. For others, Ms meant 'divorced'.

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